As a pastor, I am constantly trying to challenge our parents with the verse, 'His mercies are new every day.' So we have to let ourselves go a little bit—because here's what I've found with Christian parents especially: we take too way too much credit and way too much blame for the way our children turn out. ~Ted Cunningham on Focus on the Family interview, "Moving Beyond Performance-Based Parenting"I read this quote on Sara's blog and wanted to hear more from this man. Because what he said about credit and blame resonated with me. So I did a little Google search and found the interview. Oh, so glad I did! He has a lot of good stuff to say. If you have half an hour, I highly recommend giving it a listen.